Takeaways “INSPIRAVATION” for You
– By Gracious Akintayo
SEVEN (7) WAYS YOU IGNORANTLY WASTES TIME: 
1. Worrying about what others think or feel of you is what makes it difficult for you to focus on your purpose.
2. Trying to please everyone, to look good makes you slower, and stressed.
3. Complaining about everything without finding a solution makes you not have a plan for your life and pulls you away from productivity.
4. Being a perfectionist without giving rooms to benefits of doubt can lead to life paralysis and a failure to act. 
5. Fearing failure with excuses and reasons makes time fly away without you accomplishing your goals.
6. Repeating the same mistake due to overthinking and indecision makes you stop learning and say “yes” to everything.
7. Procrastinating and multitasking delays significant tasks and trying to do many things at the same time exposes you to errors and setbacks.
Therefore, STOP wasting time, and UTILIZE the time judiciously.
THERE ARE THREE TYPES OF WOMEN: 
The 3 types of women are;
1. A woman who looks good – attractive, subtle, and seductive, but dangerous snake.
2. A woman who feels good – sexy and gorgeous, but lacks value and character.
3. A woman who is good for you – virtuous and godly, though not perfect, but teachable.
If a man follows his EYE, he will marry the No.1 and may end up like Samson.
If he follows his BODY, he will marry the No. 2 and may end up like King Ahab, the husband of Jezèbel.
But if he follows his GOD, he will marry the No. 3, and end up like King Xerxes, the husband of Queen Esther, who solidifies, and protects her husband
Every man with a kingdom goal needs a godly Queen to solidify, and protect his throne.
IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE:
Marriage is not outdated, it is God’s idea. An ordained divine order, designed for His purpose, promises, procreation, prosperity, and fulfilment.
Marriage is the most powerful partnership in life and the most important contract you will ever sign, with God as the witness.
Marriage with the right person draw you closer to God, pulled you into purposeful life, lead you to godly heritage, and gives you eternal love, with memorable legacy.
Marriage is important, it makes you work hard, to be responsible, purposeful, and accountable, except you chose not to.
HOW TO TREAT A MAN AND KEEP HIM: 
Once you treat a man right, and care for him, he becomes blind to every other attraction. All he sees is you, your love, your loyalty, your care, and your personality. It is not about beauty, status, or perfection, but about how you make him feel important as your King when he’s with you.
When a man feels respected, supported, and valued, no other woman can attract him.
He notices those small things you do; the way you believe in him, the way you stand by him, and the way you care about his progress.
He doesn’t need your perfection. All he needs is your genuine heart and consistent care.
When he feels truly cared for, he’ll go extra to give his love for you, protect you, provide for you, prioritize you, and be committed to you in a way you never expected, with everything he has.
Gracious K. Akintayo is the Editor/Publisher of Providence, a Nigerian non-denominational Christian News publication since 2002.
